Don’t wait to be explained to, shown or taught. Learn yourself and make mistakes.
I’ve spent my life doing exactly that, and apart from two memorable teachers, have myself to thank and the mistakes I have made, for learning most things which is hugely liberating. Believe me.
Guess what could be the right thing. Do it with grace and empathy. Understand what is missing.
Don’t wait for someone else to tell you what to do!
Do it now.